You and your partner have just have a wild mind blowing session. Both of you have orgasms. You want to have another round. Then you have a problem. You cant stay hard after the first orgasm. Sometimes even after a few hours, you cant get hard as you were previously. This obviously make having multiple session kinda impossible. Would be emberassing if you are in a swinging session whether threesome, foursome or more. So what is happening here? Are you not 'experienced' enough? Is this normal? What can you do? Is there something that you can do?
You are experiencing what is known as the curse of the refractory period. In layman’s terms, the refractory period refers to a “break time” for your penis. Usually, it takes some time for an excitable membrane to prepare for stimulus again. Yes, it’s true that some men can stay erect after orgasm, but rest assured that a majority of men need this “break time” to rebuild their strength and allow their penises time to feel excitable again.
If you don’t want to roll over and go to sleep after ejaculating, one possible option includes going back to foreplay -- in the form of kissing and touching your partner -- until you feel you are able to gain an erection for round two. Perhaps after a short rest, you can start to go back foreplay again.
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