Basic Sex Positions - 69

The 69 position, so-named for the two bodies’ positions relative to each other – resembling a 6 and a 9, is a mutual oral sex position.
HOW TO DO IT:

One person lies down. The other person will turn into a position with their feet toward the other person’s head, and their head toward the first person’s feet, and get into a position on top of the first person, such that their face is directly over the naughty bits of the person lying down. From that point, the two people perform oral sex upon each other. Typically, the person on top is on his/her knees and elbows, though some do it with the person on top literally resting on top of the bottom person.

When 69 involves a guy and a girl, generally, the guy is on the bottom. This allows the girl to go down on the guy, and remain in control of how deep she takes the guy’s cock into her mouth. If the guy is on top, it is harder for him to concentrate on how far into her mouth he’s pushing his cock if he’s the one doing the movement. This can be dangerous because if he pushes too far into the back of her throat, there can be negative consequences! Of course, it is possible for the girl to be responsible for all of the movement required for the oral sex even if the guy is on top, though it is a little harder to do than if she were on top. Allowing the guy to cum in your mouth in this position allows for the cum to go right down the hatch as well!

It is possible for the two partners to insert their fingers into the orifices of the other (vaginal or anal) in this position, though it is much easier for the one on the bottom to do so than for the one on top. One of my favorite things to do when someone is on top of me is to wrap my arms under and around their legs to play with their asshole while I am performing oral on them. This can be done by the person on top as well, but it is just a little harder to do.

One variant for this is for the person on top (the girl, usually) can lift herself up and basically assume a position of sitting on the bottom’s face.

Another variant is for the two people to be lying on their sides, with one leg raised, bent at the knee, and foot on the bed (or w/e). This will allow for easier access by both people. You can prevent the neck from tiring by resting your head on the other person’s thigh.

PROS:

Orgasm contests – see who can make the other one cum first!

CONS:

Doesn’t work well for couples who are not of reasonably similar heights.

For some people, having to focus on pleasing the other prevents them from enjoying the attention they are getting! It is practical, however, for one person to bring the other one off, and then allow the roles to reverse.

OTHER INFO:

If you’re into eating ass (rimming, etc.), the person on top (guy or girl) can assume the “sitting on the face” position and the bottom can lavish attention upon the top’s anal region.

The bottom can make things easier on their neck if they find a small pillow or something to put under their head to help hold their head up a little while performing oral. This will make it easier on the neck muscles.